Decisions That Are A Long Time ComingOct 05, 2023
I’ve always valued decisiveness. Looking for the quality in myself, I tend to lack self-compassion for when I “don’t know what to do.” I’m reallyyyy not a fan of my own “mixed feelings”.
But when we have mixed feelings and haven’t decided, it means that we're just not there yet. It’s totally natural to be scared to decide because of the unknown. If we cross the murky ravine between us and our decision, so much might happen. Sinking could be inevitable, couldn’t it? It could. There’s always the possibility of failure delivered on a slow drip.
The best decisions, I’m learning, happen gradually, whether we see it that way or not. Just because a decision doesn't occur in an instant, doesn't mean it's less valuable. Great decisions are the sum of tiny awakenings. Like the light of dawn, clarity that appears suddenly has been arriving all along.
Consider the great decisions of your recent history. Hindsight paints them to be momentous moments of inner truth…when in the moment they were simply, and only, what was being required of you at the time - to keep your personal peace, to step into your potential, to respect your dignity, to choose your self, to fully embrace your power without apology, to just get by.
Whether you walked away from love, in order to love yourself..
Or raised your voice in order to raise your bar…
Whether you turned down an opportunity that was good enough to signal the excellence of what you deserve…
Or left a home of known comforts to find a home of unknown possibilities…
Your decisions have been a long time coming. So, if a great decision is taking longer than you’d like, if someone else’s decision is being drawn out, remember there is no rush. Your decision is happening, whether you've decided or not. Give yourself grace. Let it take time. You'll know when you know...you know?
Woman on xx
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